The Relationship Audit
You've tried everything and you're at a crossroads in your relationship. All you know is that you can't keep living like this...
The Relationship Audit
A three session intensive for couples who need some real talk and a big dose of hope.
You still love each other, but something has shifted (maybe it’s been shifting for years) and you’re both exhausted from trying to figure out where to go next.
Maybe you’ve done couples therapy, maybe one of you has resisted it, or hated the process. Either way, you’re here, reading this, which means you’ve reached a point where something has to change.
You don’t need another year of weekly sessions to figure it out. You need someone to come in, see clearly what’s actually happening between you, and give you both a real, honest picture, as well as a clear path forward.
That’s exactly what this is.
This is a focused three-session intensive with me, Julia Goodall clinical psychologist turned psychotherapist and relationship expert with 15+ years of experience working with couples just like yours.Â
Session One
The Full Picture
Together we map out where you are, as a couple and as individuals.
What’s working, what isn’t, what are you not seeing? No blame, just radical responsibility and finally some clarity about each of your experiences and differences.
Session Two
Under the surface
Here we go a bit deeper. What are the well worn patterns, the family stories you each brought with you, the (annoying) habits and unspoken gripes that have quietly been running the show for years?
This is where it finally starts to make more sense, and you get a clearer picture of WHY you've found it so hard to reconnect over the years.
Session Three
The Way Forward
You leave with an assessment from me, and a plan. This will feel like a huge relief after all the back and forward you've done over the last few years.
The plan we build might look like a radical re-working of how you're doing life together, or a clear plan around how you will separate and co-parent together.
Hi, I'm Julia
I have 15+ years of experience working with couples like yours. My low-key superpower is getting you to finally see each other and make sense of why it's felt so bloody hard until now.
Many of the couples I work with have tried it all, but haven't found a way forward and are a bit cynical about therapy and coaching. Sometimes these couples have an extra layer of neurodiversity meaning traditional couples advice has never quite fit their experience. I'm here for it all.
Julia is a master at what she does. She is formidable as much as she is gentle. I have grown tremendously as a person and I have her to thank for the gifts that are continuing to reveal themselves because of the time I have spent under her guidance. Julia is a transformer. She has a gift of making connections that illuminate things that are screaming for your attention but that have been overlooked.
____Â Client
Without a doubt, LÂ and I would have parted ways were it not for you.
I truly believe the powers that be were watching over us the day I contacted you. Your insight, expertise, and guidance — coupled with your caring and gently assertive approach during our therapy sessions — have genuinely changed our lives.
 Not only have you helped us as a couple, but I’m certainly a better parent for having met you. Your impact on my life as a mum, and especially in helping me through A's recent difficulties, has been immeasurable.
____Â Client
The Relationship Audit
You know you can't keep living like this, this is your space to find a way forward and finally some peace.